To Be Loved

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Satya Nadella wants love, but he's looking for it in all the wrong places.

Satya Nadella, the CEO of Microsoft, recently made a statement that caught my attention. He stated,

"We want to move from people needing Windows to choosing Windows, to loving Windows. That is our bold goal."

A bold goal, yes, but not an uncommon one. I'll follow that up with a bold statement of my own, Mr. Nadella has this love thing all wrong.

Now, to be fair, one can't get a full view of what someone thinks about a topic, (especially a complex topic such as love) from a couple sentences, but it's a start. You can't judge a book by its cover, but you can still get a general idea from that cover as to what is inside. So that being said, let's unpack Nadella's statement.

Nadella's Ladder

• Needed: When we associate with someone out of necessity it means that we really don't want to, but we do it because we have to. An example is children choosing teams for a game, the last kid picked was picked simply because they were the only one left. Not a favorable position to be in.
• Chosen: The next rung in Nadella's ladder is more favorable, but still not ideal. Someone in the chosen category is definitely liked, but is also interchangeable with others. Firmly in the middle of the pack, it's nice for them to be around, but we don't really miss them when they're gone.
• Loved: The top of the ladder, and Nadella's goal for Windows. Someone in this category cannot be done without. The first one picked, they not only make life worth living, but also are sorely missed when they're gone.

That sort of progression may work with Mr. Nadella, but God's love turns that list around.

God's Love is Different

With God's list, the love comes first. In fact, God loves us even though we were/are His enemies. He doesn't need anything from us, but still wants to spend time with us. Not only does He love us, but He also showed that love by dying in our place.

You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:6-8 NIV

Let that sink in for a little bit. The best human relationship we can imagine pales in comparison with the relationship that God offers us. In essence, this unconditional love and acceptance is what sets Christianity apart from other world religions. Nothing is earned, it is only received, and anyone who states otherwise is not a true follower of God.

So as many people (at least in the United States) start talking about a holiday of love, don't be like Nadella and look for love simply from other people, look to the True Source because it is only from this Source will your desires be truly fulfilled.

[Featured Post] Marriage is Not a Convenience Store

This featured post comes from Dr. Kelly Flanagan's blog Untangled.  Enjoy.

What do an all-inclusive resort, a mobile device, a phone company, and marriage all have in common? We have come to expect the same thing from all of them: one-stop, all-in-one convenience. 

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Last August, my wife and I attended a conference in Honolulu. The hotel had three restaurants, two bars, six gift shops, a convenience store, a business center, two pools, and beach access. You could fly to Hawaii and have a perfect vacation, without ever leaving your hotel.

All-inclusive convenience.

As consumers, we have come to expect this.

An iPhone is a one-stop shop in our pockets: phone, email, text, iPod, maps, news, personal calendar, family calendar, eBook reader(s), weather forecasts, Netflix and YouTube, and the list goes on and on.

All-in-one convenience.

As consumers, we have been trained to feel entitled to this.

In Chicago, AT&T bundles home phone, mobile phone, internet, and cable service. They recently added home security. I wonder when they’ll add babysitting to the bundle. I bet they’re beta testing it right now.

As consumers, we’ve been sold a lucrative lie called convenience, and it has infiltrated every aspect of our lives.

Including marriage.

Why Marriage is Ripping

In the last several decades, we have come to expect our marriages to serve an endless list of functions for us. We want our marriages to be the place we find romance and friendship and community and entertainment and security and self-esteem and direction and purpose and meaning.

Marriage has become life’s ultimate convenience store—an existential one-stop shop expected to meet all of our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual needs.

I think the biggest threat to marriage is this idealized, consumer-oriented, convenience store mentality we now bring to our wedding day.

Because when we act like we’re marrying a Walgreen’s instead of a person, marriage becomes an end unto itself. It becomes our one focus, our one purpose, and our one source of satisfaction. Our lives shrink as the expectations of our partner expand.

Many of us have put all our existential eggs in the marriage basket. And the basket is ripping beneath the strain of it. So then we compound the problem by spending all of our time trying to stitch the marriage back together, hoping it will hold all of our hopes and expectations again.

Maybe, instead, we need to spend some of our time finding other baskets.

Marriage is Not an All-Inclusive Hotel

I suppose it sounds like I’m recommending infidelity or lukewarm love or questionable commitment, but I’m not. I’m suggesting we will become more loving and more committed when we quit making marriage the only place we find purpose and meaning. 

Last August, we were with friends in Honolulu, and one of them got angry about the all-inclusive hotel and its plethora of services. He said it was the hotel’s way of tricking people into spending all their time and money there, discouraging guests from going out into the city and seeing the beautiful island.

He insisted on spending most of his time outside of the hotel, discovering new things. Then, after a day of exploring, he would return to the hotel to rest and recover.

I think that’s how marriage is supposed to work. It’s not supposed to be the one place we experience satisfaction in life. It’s supposed to be the place we return to—the safe place to recover—after we have ventured out into the world, to explore, to discover, to live. 

Marriage is the Hub of a Rebellion

What if we can’t find enduring purpose and meaning in marriage alone, because it’s simply not there to be found? What if purpose and meaning are found as we venture out into the world,

discovering we are strong enough to endure and good enough no matter what,

discovering a community or a cause that echoes the cry of our heart,

discovering how our gifts fit the needs of a broken world,

discovering how to love the unloveable (including ourselves),

discovering the grace that contains it all,

and discovering the courage to live all of it one day at a time.

Marriage is not an existential convenience store or an all-inclusive bundle of emotional services. Marriage is not the place we fight for good things—it’s the place we return to after we fight for good things, in ourselves and out in the world. It’s the place we return to:

to celebrate our victories,

to mourn our losses,

to lick our wounds,

to regain our strength,

and to be sent back out into the world again.

When lived in this way, our marriages become a celebration—a place of rejoicing and encouragement and support—and the hub of a rebellion against a world riddled with shame, meaninglessness, loneliness, despair and darkness. 

Two people living with that kind of purpose become a light no darkness can withstand. 

Last night, in the midst of a “family cleaning night,” I heard my daughter in her room, cleaning up and making up a silly song of her own: “By myself this is too hard, but together, we can do it. Together, we can do anything.”

Yes.

Marriage isn’t everything. But from within it, we can do anything.

What do you think about this view of marriage?  Leave your comments in the comment section.

[Video] Should Christians participate in Halloween?

I found this video a couple of days ago and thought I'd share it with you.  Whether you fully agree with the conclusion or not, I hope that it gets you thinking.

[Book Review] Watching the War

Sometimes the importance of a situation prevents us from taking a big picture look at it.  In his book Watching the War, David B. Smith takes a big picture look the most important situation in the universe.

David B. Smith follows in the footsteps of  C.S. Lewis in this unorthodox view of what many call "the great controversy" or "the story of redemption", which begins with the origin of sin, and ends with its ultimate destruction.  Watching the War portrays this saga primarily from the perspective of Malachon and Pershia, rulers of the fictional planet Senteria.  Aside from giving the author a base from which to tell a story, what purpose does this change in view serve?

Perspective Increases Awareness

While Smith reveals that his personal intention for this perspective is an attempt to get answers for his many questions, another benefit comes as the result of this change; awareness.  Changing our perspective often makes us aware of aspects that we had previously overlooked.  An example from the book comes from the story the fall of Adam and Eve.  In this book Malachon and Pershia travel with God to talk with Adam and Eve, and Pershia gives an impassioned plea that whatever they do, they should not eat the fruit.

More Than Simply a Story

In addition to creative storytelling, Smith takes frequent breaks from the narrative to further unpack some of the concepts that occur in the story.  He draws from a variety of sources (including C.S. Lewis)  to help the reader understand these complex concepts, but he readily admits that he doesn't have all the answers.  At one point, in an attempt to explain how one Man's death on a cross can save an entire planet, Smith states that one doesn't have to know how it works, one simply has to know that it does work.

Conclusion

Many Christians may not learn anything new from this book, but you will be reminded of many important concepts including the most important concept of all, that God loves you.  This book can be purchased for a very reasonable price, and along with the limited amounts of paper copies available (see link above), you can also purchase a Kindle edition.  So what are you waiting for?  Pick your copy today.

What to do you think about this approach to explaining complex subjects?  Tell us your view in the comment section.

Losing Your Balance

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An interview with actor Brad Pitt highlighted an ongoing problem in Christianity.

Recently as I drove to meet my wife for lunch, I heard a familiar voice on the radio.  After listening for a few minutes I remembered that the voice belonged to the American actor Brad Pitt.

In the interview, being conducted by NPR's Terry Gross, Mr. Pitt recalled how Christianity made an impact on his early life, but also how he ultimately went away from it.  He said that there were "many other reasons" for his departure, but one of them that he chose to highlight caught my attention because it resonated with some of my experience with Christianity, and maybe it will resonate with you as well.  The reason can be explained in one word, exclusiveness.

The Balancing Act

Many balancing acts exist in Christianity, a key one being the balance between exclusiveness (being separate) and inclusiveness (being inviting).  The Bible speaks many times of the need for a distinction between believers and nonbelievers.  We read in the Old Testament section of the Bible where God and His prophets repeatedly tell the nation of Israel how and why it needs to be separate from the surrounding nations and their false systems of worship.

We also see the separation in the New Testament in many of the teachings of Jesus especially in the parables recorded in Matthew 25 (foolish vs. wise virgins, resourceful vs. lazy servants, sheep vs. goats). The apostle Paul spoke of separating from those who did not believe the truth; especially from those who had a superficial theology (as we will look at later in this post).  So the Bible states that a time and place exists for exclusivity, but what happens when this exclusiveness becomes unbalanced?

Why Don't They Get To Go To Heaven Then?

You have people asking questions like that one.  This question came from a young Brad Pitt as he struggled with Christianity.  The full quotation goes as follows.

"I was very curious about the world even at a young age, and I don't know at what point I became aware that other cultures believed in different religions, and my question was, 'Well, why don't they get to go to heaven then?' And the answer was always, 'Well, everyone gets a chance — meaning at the word of God as it was described to me then. And that didn't sit well with me then."

Many people have asked that question or at least have had a sense of uneasiness about the subject.  That group included me, at least until I discovered this passage in the book of Romans.

"For merely listening to the law doesn’t make us right with God. It is obeying the law that makes us right in his sight. Even Gentiles, who do not have God’s written law, show that they know his law when they instinctively obey it, even without having heard it. They demonstrate that God’s law is written in their hearts, for their own conscience and thoughts either accuse them or tell them they are doing right. And this is the message I proclaim—that the day is coming when God, through Christ Jesus, will judge everyone’s secret life."  Romans 2-13-16 (NLT)

In this passage, the apostle Paul highlighted this concept as a way of contrasting the behavior of apparent outsiders (the Gentiles) with the proclaimed insiders (the Jews).  Key thoughts being that the Gentiles did not have to hear the law to fulfill its requirements, and that God will judge people by how they live, not by what they have heard.  So if such relatively plain texts exist then why do we still have the exclusive/inclusive argument, are we neglecting the root of the problem?

The Root of the Problem

Behind an imbalanced view of the exclusive/inclusive concept, a much deeper one exists; an incomplete picture of God.  Why do people have an incomplete picture?  They get it from His professed followers.  Followers of an inviting God often use religion as a barrier between God and those who want to come to Him.  They like things the way they are, and don't want any "sinners" to interfere with life as usual.  The very same problem that the Roman believers had centuries ago continues today with similar results, people hungering for something more are left feeling empty and isolated.  So how do we solve such a problem?

Solving the Problem

To paraphrase a popular saying, we need to be the change that we want to see in the world.  If we want a more balanced Christianity, we must ourselves be more balanced.  If we want Christianity to be more inviting, we need to be more inviting.  If we want people to have a complete picture of God, then we need to have one ourselves.  All this only comes from having a deeper relationship with God.

What incomplete picture of God did you once have or continue to have?  Share in the comments section.

Featured Post: What I Learned About Leadership from a Fight with My WIfe

This featured post comes from Intentional Leadership, a blog written by Michael Hyatt, Chairman of Thomas Nelson Publishers.  His goal is to "help people live and lead on purpose".

What I Learned About Leadership from a Fight with My Wife

Gail and I have been married for thirty-three years. She is my lover, my best friend, and my coach. But a few days ago we had a fight. It was a doozy.

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It’s not important what it was about. It was one of those issues we have stumbled over previously. But I will admit that it was my fault. I ambushed her and let it escalate beyond what the circumstances warranted.

Thankfully, it ended well. Primarily, because Gail was patient, refusing to react to my rant. This was enough to end what Emerson Eggerichs calls, “the crazy cycle.” (If you haven’t read his book, Love and Respect, you must do so. It’s the most practical book on marriage I’ve read.)

Weary—and feeling a little foolish—we asked one another’s forgiveness and restored the relationship.

As I was reflecting on that experience today, I thought to myself, How can we avoid slipping into this same conflict in the future. I wrote down five lessons I want to remember for the future.

1. Clarify our expectations up front. Most conflicts are born out of a misalignment of expectations. In this particular argument, I had a set of unexpressed expectations that Gail failed to meet. If we had discussed them before the day began, we would have likely avoided the problem altogether. But, she didn’t know, because I hadn’t bothered to articulate them.
2. Assume the best about each other. This is especially difficult in the heat of the moment. It is easy to impute motives. But, realistically, your spouse does not get up in the morning intending to make your life miserable. You have to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt, and assume that he or she is well-intentioned.
3. Affirm the priority of the relationship. The most important asset you have as a couple is the health of your relationship. You don’t want to win the battle but lose the war. Near the end of our argument, I finally came to my senses. I said, “Honestly, I don’t know who is right or who is wrong. What I know for sure is that I love you and that trumps everything.” She quickly agreed.
4. De-personalize the problem. When you square off against one another and make it personal, it gets ugly. If you are not careful, you end up cornering your spouse and leaving them no other option than to react or retaliate. Instead, you have to move to their side of the table, and work on the problem together.
5. Listen more than you talk. When you get angry, it is easy to rant—to give expression to your emotion. This is almost never a good idea. Instead, if you want to be understood, you must seek to understand. (Thank you, Dr. Covey.) This means trying to see the other person’s point-of-view. Ask a question, and then ask a follow-up question.

What does this have to do with leadership? Everything. If you can’t lead yourself, you can’t lead others. And if you can’t learn to manage conflict with those closest to you, how can you manage it with those who have less of a stake in the outcome?

Question: What have you learned from conflict in your own marriage? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

Lost in Our Own Home

"The Lost Drachma" by James Tissot
Courtesy Brooklyn Museum

When God looks for us sometimes He doesn't have to go very far to find us.

In my last post, I wrote about a story involving God looking for someone who has wandered far away.  Today's story involves a similar scenario, but with a twist.  The searcher doesn't have to go far to find that which was lost, but that doesn't make the search any easier.

This story involves a woman should have ten pieces of silver, but only has nine.  She knows that the silver pieces have never left the house, so the missing one must be around somewhere.  No doubt we can identify with her situation in one way or another.  At one point or another we have lost something in our own homes; something valuable, i. e. our keys.  We know that they are in our home somewhere because the car is here and we are inside, but for the life of us we cannot find them.  The situation often becomes more intense by the fact that we need to go to an appointment, work, or some other time-sensitive engagement.  We leave "no stone unturned" as the saying goes, in our search for our missing item.

In the story involving the woman she has no appointment to go to, but she still desperately needs to find that silver piece.  She lives in a time and place where women received a dowry, and she wishes to pass these silver pieces on to her daughter, all of them.  An incomplete set simply will not do.  The loss of even one of these pieces would be a serious problem.  The poverty in which she lives only serves to compound her anxiety.  So she cleans the entire house looking for this piece of silver, and great rejoicing comes as a result of her finally finding it.

One of the main differences that exist between this story and the one with the lost sheep is that the sheep knows it's in trouble.  It knows it has done/is doing things that aren't right.  It knows that it needs help; needs to be found.  On the other hand, people represented by the piece of silver think that they are doing alright.  They often profess to be believers in God, and may be quite active in their respective churches, communities, etc.  They may also be out there "in the world" and have become desensitized to their true need of God.  They think these ways while all the time living under the same roof as faithful believers.

People in this category often receive harsh treatment, the religious ones being called "hypocrites" and being used as an excuse by those in open rebellion as the reason they rebelled.  The non-religious ones often receive the label "lost cause" and people do not even try to reach out to them.  We need to be crystal clear that these people have as much value and need to be sought after as much, or even more than, those who have openly gone away from God.  One author put it this way.

"The coin, though lying among dust and rubbish, is a piece of silver still. Its owner seeks it because it is of value. So every soul, however degraded by sin, is in God's sight accounted precious. As the coin bears the image and superscription of the reigning power, so man at his creation bore the image and superscription of God; and though now marred and dim through the influence of sin, the traces of this inscription remain upon every soul. God desires to recover that soul and to retrace upon it His own image in righteousness and holiness"  Christ's Object Lessons pg. 194

This simple truth remains, God loves everyone, even those who have no feeling, no real sense, that they walk the wrong path, and in order for these "coins" to be found we need to have that same love for them in our hearts.

Looking for You

"Seeking the Lost Sheep in the Mountains"
courtesy La Vista Church of Christ

God is looking for you, even if we don't think we are worth the effort.

There is one fact that I want you to be perfectly clear about, and that is that God loves you.  We have heard people say a lot about God loving the world (if we hear even that much), and often lose sight of the fact that He loves us as  individuals.  It doesn't matter what we have done, or even what we are doing right now, He still loves us; loves me; loves you.

Many stories exist that, in one way or another, try to illustrate that love.  The one I read most recently involves a man who owned some sheep, a hundred of them to be exact.  Now at the end of the day when he brought all the sheep in from grazing, it seems as though one was missing.  He counts again, and sure enough, only ninety-nine sheep.  He could have thought that it was too much trouble to go out into the darkness to find this one sheep.  He could have thought that the lost sheep will get what it deserves for wandering away.  He could have thought up so many excuses not to go out, but instead he chose to look for that one lost sheep.

A storm started to brew, but that did not deter him.  It only served to increase the earnestness of his search.  Despite the darkness of the night and the danger of the path, he searches until at long last he hears the faint sound of his lost sheep.  He can tell that if he doesn't get to it soon it will be too late, and with great joy he at last finds it.  He doesn't scold or punish the sheep, but rather takes it in his arms and brings it to the place of safety.  It didn't matter what the sheep had done, he was simply glad to bring it home.

One writer put it this way

"Desponding soul, take courage, even though you have done wickedly. Do not think that perhaps God will pardon your transgressions and permit you to come into His presence. God has made the first advance. While you were in rebellion against Him, He went forth to seek you. With the tender heart of the shepherd He left the ninety and nine and went out into the wilderness to find that which was lost."  Christ's Object Lessons pgs. 188-189

One of the greatest lies going around is the one that states that we have gone too far, committed too many sins to be loved by a holy God, but that could not be further from the truth.  However far we have gone, He will go even farther to bring us to Him.  Don't worry about trying to fix yourself ahead of time, simply allow yourself to be found, and He will find you because He is looking for you.

Paradoxical God

I often find it interesting that so many times when we ask God for something that He gives us something completely opposite.

I, like many people, like to ask God for things.  Some think that we shouldn't ask God for anything, but there are many instances in the Bible where God asks us to ask Him for things.  Probably the most well known phrase regarding asking God is the one that states that we don't have because we don't ask (James 4:2), or perhaps the one that states that if we ask, we shall receive (Luke 11:9, 10) is more common to you.  Either way, God wants us to present our requests to Him.

Now most of us know, at least intellectually, that we shouldn't ask for things that are simply for our selfish gratification (i.e. a winning lottery ticket), so we tend to only verbalize the requests that we know we should have (even if in our hearts we still are hoping for that winning number), like patience, kindness, etc.  This brings me to the main topic in that often God gives us the exact opposite of what we ask for.  For example, we ask God for peace, and He gives us stressful situations.  (Now before anyone gets any bright ideas about using reverse psychology on God, you have to remember Who you're dealing with here.)

The key in dealing with these situations is the key in dealing with almost all situations.  We have to trust that God knows what He's doing and that He has our best interests in mind.

The Mind-Blowing Love of God

It has been said that a picture is worth a thousand words, but the best ones are those who render you almost speechless.  I rediscovered one of those today.

I am a collector of pictures, most notably pictures of the natural world.  Some are those that I have taken myself, but also many from other sources.  I keep these pictures on my computer and use them as my desktop background.  Since I have quite a few, I change my background on a regular basis.  As I was deciding what my next change was going to be I found a picture of a spiral galaxy tucked away in one of my folders.  This got me thinking along the lines of astronomical pictures.  I did a search for this kind of pictures and came to a rather reliable source for good astronomical pictures, the site for the Hubble Space Telescope aptly named hubblesite.org.  Naturally I found a number of good pictures, but there was one that every time I see it blows my mind.

The title of the photo is rather mundane (it's called "The Hubble Deep Field North"), but what is in the picture is anything but mundane.  The caption states,

About 1,500 galaxies are visible in this deep view of the universe, taken by allowing the Hubble Space Telescope to stare at the same tiny patch of sky for 10 consecutive days in 1995. The image covers an area of sky only about width of a dime viewed from 75 feet away.

Take a look for yourself and keep in mind that practically every speck you see is not merely a star, but rather a galaxy of stars.


Source: Hubblesite.org

Here's a brief video on how the picture was taken.


Here are two points that stood out to me.

• There are galaxies in the picture which are 12 billion light years away (a light year is approx. 6 trillion miles).  A billion times a trillion is a very large number.
• Each of the approx. 1,500 galaxies can consist of 1-100 billion stars.
• Also remember that this is from a piece of the sky smaller than the period at the end of this sentence.

As your mind is already straining to comprehend the size of it all, let me throw this fact at you.  The same God Who created and cares for all of this would have emptied Himself to save you if you were the only one who needed saving.

Behold the mind-blowing love of God.

The Ultimate Valentine

"But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:19 KJV

As of last night and especially this morning I had a desire to write something about Valentine's Day.  I didn't know exactly what to write until just a few moments ago.  If you only remember one thing from this post, I want it to be the fact that Jesus Christ is the Ultimate Valentine for you.

As is often the case, when a holiday comes around I like to look at its history.  So yesterday I went to the good people over at The History Channel to see what they had to say.  Here is what they said.

 

I won't go repeat much of what you just saw except the line at the end which states that even though you may not be able to purchase the gift that you want to give, the poets were right.  Love is really all you need.  It is the Ultimate Love that I want you to have.

Too much of this day is focused on the things of this earth:  gifts, cards, flowers, etc.  These things are all well and good, if done responsibly, and especially if you have someone to give these things to or receive them from.  For many people this day is a day of loneliness, a day of frustration, a day of despair.  If you are one of these people, and even if you are not, the Ultimate Valentine is for you.

The Ultimate Valentine is, naturally, Jesus Christ.  According to the Bible verse written above God will supply all your need according to His riches in glory.  Jesus Christ is the instrument in which God supplies all our need.

The Valentine gifts we receive and give are but tokens of our love and affection, but the gift God gave in the person of Jesus Christ was not merely a representation of His love, it was His love for us.  So if you are in need of something or someone this Valentine's Day look no further than the One Who emptied heaven itself so that we could have all the things that He has, and (most importantly) someday soon be where He is as well.

Confidence

Psalm 119:41-48 

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 ⁴¹ May your unfailing love come to me, O LORD,
       your salvation according to your promise; 
 ⁴² then I will answer the one who taunts me,
       for I trust in your word.
 ⁴³ Do not snatch the word of truth from my mouth,
       for I have put my hope in your laws.
 ⁴⁴ I will always obey your law,
       for ever and ever.
 ⁴⁵ I will walk about in freedom,
       for I have sought out your precepts.
 ⁴⁶ I will speak of your statutes before kings
       and will not be put to shame,
 ⁴⁷ for I delight in your commands
       because I love them.
 ⁴⁸ I lift up my hands to your commands, which I love,
       and I meditate on your decrees.

Keeping the law gives us a confidence that we otherwise wouldn't have.

I want to focus on verses 45-47 in this section because it talks about a noticeable benefit of keeping God's, confidence. The psalmist here states that he "will walk about in freedom" because he seeks out God's precepts. He also states that he will speak of God's law before kings "and will not be put to shame." Doing what is right gives us a confidence, a boldness, that we otherwise wouldn't have. We can withstand a lot of criticism from others if we know that what they are saying is false. In my studying of the life of the apostle Paul, it is easy for me to see that he had this confidence, this boldness that stood in such a stark contrast to his accusers. He had that confidence because he knew what he believed and he knew that what he believed was right.

It is important to note what it states in the end of verse 47, "because I love them". If we are keeping God's law for any other reason than love, we will not have that confidence because that confidence does not come from fulfilling an obligation. Someone once told me that God = law = love. To think of it in any other way would be to have a legalistic, works-oriented religion.

Some Things to Remember

Psalm 117  ¹ Praise the LORD, all you nations; extol him, all you peoples.  ² For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the LORD endures forever.  Praise the LORD.

The shortest chapter in the Bible makes some important points.

No need to put a link so you can read the entire chapter because all two verses, and twenty-nine words, of it is written above. However, as most of you who are familiar with the Bible know, a lot can be said with just a few words. There are two main points I would like to mention.

First, God's love toward us is great. I know that sounds like something we've heard so many times, but it's something that we often forget. When things are going our way, I mean really not going our way, it is easy to forget His great love for us, but we need to remember that reality. It is that reality that will keep us from giving up, from being overwhelmed by the forces assembled against us. The list  of benefits of remembering this reality could fill pages, and can be summed up in this. Remembering this reality will have a positive effect on every aspect of our lives.

And the second is like unto it. His faithfulness endures forever. Remembering this could also benefit our daily lives. Everything man-made, and some things that are natural, on this failing earth is temporary to varying degrees. Our emotions are often up and down like a roller coaster, making us dizzy and nauseous. God is the only constant thing in the universe, and that constancy is available to us 100% of the time. All we have to do is take hold of it.

So as we go about our days, let the shortest chapter in the Bible remind us of these all-important attributes of God, and may remembering them bring lasting change to our everyday lives.

Considering His Love

Psalm 107:43 Whoever is wise, let him heed these things and consider the great love of the LORD.

Regardless of the situation we find ourselves in, we can consider God's love, and know that He wants to deliver us.

Psalm 107 is basically a series of scenarios. There is no specific historical connection for these scenarios so it's best to take them in a general, illustrative sense. A theme that runs through all these scenarios is that people found themselves in negative situations and God came to their aid. It is interesting to note that of the four situations mentioned, two of them came as a result of the people's own foolishness. In one case their negative situation came as a result of direct rebellion against God, yet God saved them when they cried out to Him. In the other, the rebellion is there but is more generalized, yet the deliverance is still the same. In fact, upon closer examination, verses 6, 13, 19, and 28 are almost exactly the same. I decided to look up those verses in the original Hebrew and discovered that aside from a slight variation in verse 28, they are exactly the same. All the key words are the same, the differences in the NIV came by way of translation. Therefore, the thought is quite clear. If you cry out to the LORD, He will deliver you from your distress.

This comes as great comfort to me because, like many people, I have things that distress me. Some of these things came as a result of my own rebellion, and some simply came upon me like a storm. Whatever the case, I can take heed to the things I read in Psalm 107 and consider God's great love for me that if I cry out to Him, He will deliver me from my distress.

Unusual Companions

Psalm 85:10  Love and faithfulness meet together; righteousness and peace kiss each other.

Certain aspects of Christianity go along better with each other than we may think.

In this text we have to sets of pairs, and in each set we have one supposedly weak or soft trait, and one that is considered stronger. We have to remember that the Christian life is all-or-nothing. We cannot chose which characteristics we want to exemplify while neglecting the others. For me the difficult pair has been righteousness and peace.

There have been times in my life that I have been so concerned about being righteous, that I completely neglected the concept of having peace. A big reason for that conflict is that I was being self-righteous, and being that way hardly ever brings true peace. So as we go through our Christian experience, we should ask God to help us grow in every area of our lives and not simply the ones that we prefer.